The Best Catch
- 4d
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Grandpa may have glanced
at other girls in the old, noisy years,
when dates were pressed like stubborn sleeves
and a suit could betray a man with one hot iron.
But then Grandma walked in.
And the whole day loosened its shoulders.
Warmth without explanation.
A hug disguised as ordinary air.
She made the day better
simply by being in the room—
laughing at nothing,
doing crazy, eccentric things,
the fearless general of the kitchen
who ordered the clock to tick kinder
and somehow it did.
Their four kids became proof:
a go-getter aunt,
a serving-hearted mom who tried to make the world better,
an accountant uncle steady at a legal firm,
another uncle carrying OU cheers in his pockets—
four lives shaped by both of them,
by humor and backbone,
work and loyalty,
and whatever strange magic allows two people
to share a cruise cabin for months at a time
without throwing each other overboard.
Because you don’t live that long
in a floating shoebox
unless the marriage is genuinely good.
And yes—retirement turned them into travelers.
Weeks became months.
Postcards became stacks.
They learned new oceans together,
still sweethearts after all those years,
when bickering retired
and snickering took the job.
So if Grandpa once considered another catch,
he threw it back
and kept the one
whose glow no paragraph could quite match.
He might have seen others once in passing tide,
but he married the one with the brightest light.
And as his proud grandkid,
I can say it plain:
Grandma was the best.
His ultimate catch.
No old story could outshine her.
No almost, maybe, or might-have-been
could compete with the life they actually built.
He may have considered another catch,
but he landed the lake’s most beautiful prize.
And I feel better remembering
the choice he made—
because the suit may fade
and the old stories fray,
but Grandma is the part that stayed.
The laughter I carry.
The service I watched.
The confidence of Gordon’s Lincoln
parked in the drive.
The wild courage of Joyce’s Camaro keys.
Grandma’s warmth wrapping the room
around the kid I was becoming.
He didn’t marry a memory.
He married Grandma.
And together they built a life
strong enough to travel oceans,
raise four children,
fill rooms with laughter,
and reach all the way down to me.
Whatever other catches
may once have crossed his line,
Grandma was the one he kept.
And Grandma
was the best catch.
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